13 REASONS WHY MEN DO NOT SEEK YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE

13 REASONS WHY MEN DO NOT SEEK YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE
Marriage is the legal union between man and woman coming together as husband and wife.
Marriage is a full life commitment and should be enjoyable but not endurable.
Many people are supposed to marry now but not able to get married due to one reasons or the other.
Now let us look at various reasons why men do not seek your hands in marriage.
1 PRIDE-When you are fond of pride many people will not like to associate with you and date you for marriage,therefore be humble and remove pride so as to attract men coming for your hand in marriage.
2 BAD CHARACTER-Some people have bad characters that will not help them to make a good house wife materials,if you want to get good husband and get married please try to get good character that will make men attracted to you and date you for marriage.
3 DRESSING CODES-Some girls mode of dressing is bad and this makes men ran away from them,some open bodies wears are not decent for good ladies,therefore dress properly and decently and you will see people coming for your hands in marriage.
4 LAZINESS-Some people are too lazy and indolent,they only depends on men for their survival and since man cannot afford to cater for their needs any more will deprive them from marriage,therefore try and wake up and get something to do to assist in the relationship and you will get your good husband.
5 INFIDELITY-This is one of the reasons why men do not seek your hands in marriage because of your infidelity.You must be faithful and truthful with your partner if you are engaged in any relationship,let your yes be yes and Your No be NO.Do not play double game or double dating.
6 LOYALTY-Many ladies find it difficult to get married just because they are not loyal and faithful to their spouse,if you must get married please be loyal to your partner,it is not only limited to girls only but also men in general.
7 TRUST AND CONFIDENCE-If your partner do not have trust and confidence in you it may be very difficult for you to get married because he will be doubtful about your actions and plans.
Therefore develop solid trust and confidence in your partner that he will love you and proposed marriage with you.
8 FAMILY BACK GROUND-Many people do not get married today because of their family back ground,some family may be good while some may be bad it depends on individuals family,this affect their girls in marriage.
9 LACK OF HOME TRAINING-Some people lacks home training and this affects their relationship with men and puts on some bad character that can make men run away from them,therefore get good home training such as respect,humility,kindness,cleanliness ,cooking,and many more and you will get your good husband.
10 GENERATIONAL CURSE-Many girls are not married today because of generational curse from their parents this affects them and prevents them from getting married,therefore if you must get married go for deliverance in any good church and lets them breaks the yokes of generational curse from your family.
11 CULTURAL BACKGROUND-Some people are more important about culture and ethnicity and wants to marry people from their cultural background,Marriage do not mean that you should marry people from the same culture you can marry any where if the love and understanding is there.
12 NOT ATTENDING INVITATIONS-Some girls do not attend invitation so as to interacts with people and makes friends,if you must get married please attend invitation such as wedding,marriages and social gatherings so as to make friends.
13 PERSONAL HATRED FOR MEN-Some girls developed personal hatred for men without just reason,some do not want to even mingle with men at all and find it difficult to relate with them.
If you must get married try to show some partial interest in men rather than hate.
Above all marriage is not an emergency,you have to prepare for it because if you rush into marriage you are going to rush out if you are not careful.
We advice our parents to allow our girl child and sons to choose for them selves the kind of person they want to marry because our parents are not going to live together with them since they got married.
Let them make choice for them selves because of tomorrow that the girl will say I do not want to marry the man but my parents force me to marry him.
Mean while let our boys and girls also listen to the voice and words of our parents regarding marriage since the words of our fathers are words of wisdom.
They have more experience more than we do on how to manage marriage relationship.
Moreover commit your marriage life to the hands of God and pray for Gods guardiance and you will have a successful marriage.
Thanks.