Monday, December 26, 2011

HOW TO RIGHT THE WRONG BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIVES

HOW TO RIGHT THE WRONG BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIVES TO AVOID DIVORCE.
Marriage is the legal union between husband and wives.It is the mutual agreement between male and females to come together as husband and wives and produced children who will bear their names and succeed them in life.
Today there are many challenges threatening our marriages and thereby lead to divorce and separation.
During procreation,God made man in his own image and he said that it is not good for man to be alone hence he created woman to be a help mate and put them in the garden of Eden
And Adam said this is the flesh of my flesh and bones of my bones and it shall be called woman for it was taken out of my ribs.
God Ordained and honoured marriages even our lord Jesus christ honoured marriage and attended one at Cannan where he provided for the couples when they are short of wine where water was turned into wine and all invitees were satisfied.
Nowadays our marriages suffered lots of challenges and failures due to one reasons or the other such a s lack of love, hatred, jealous, infidelity,incompatibility,marriage inexperience etc.
Now let us look at various ways on how to right the wrong between husband and wives so as to have a blissful and healthy marriages.
1 GENUINE LOVE-Both husband and wives should have genuine love for each other and no matter magnitude of offence committed by both parties can lead to fight and separation
The bible said that love covereth all things even multitude of sin,and went further to say that husband love your wives as the lord loved the church and wives should also submit to your husband
Ephesians 5,verse 23-25
2 MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIVES-For the wife and husband to live and enjoy marriages together there must be mutual understanding between husband and wives.both of them must understand themselves without third party interference
3 ENDURANCE AND TOLERANCE BY BOTH PARTIES-Both husband and wives should learn to imbibe the spirit of endurance and tolerance,they should try to avoid things that will bring fight and quarresl to each other,when you knows my likes and dislikes,you will not do anything that will irritate me.
Therefore endurance and tolerance is the watchword.
4 GIFT AND PRESENT-We can right the wrong between husband and wives by buying gift items in kind or cash to show that we are sorry for what has been done wrong and make corrections where neccesary,it is not force but a token for reunion.
5 AVOID SECOND MISTAKES-We make many mistakes every day that can tear our marriages apart but we should try to avoid second mistakes.
The mistakes that make you wrong your wives or husband should not be committed the second time.Try to avoid it so as to have peaceful marital life
6 REPENTANT SPIRIT/SORRY-We can right the wrong between husband and wives by having repentant spirit and learn to say sorry any time we wrong or wives and husband
Although it is not easy to say i am sorry for the offence which you did not commit but for peace to reign try to say i am sorry.
7 FEAR OF GOD—If you fear God and respect your husband or wives you can right the wrong between both of you.
If you fear God you will not do any thing that can hurt or harm your husband and wives.
Therefore Fear God and save your marriages today.
8 AVOID GOSSIPS-Gosspis is one of the weapons used by satan and people to destroy marriages that leads to marriage failures and divorce and separation
Do not listen to gossips from any irrelevant sources because it will make you offend your wife or husband because of wrong accusation, therefore be wise and learn to find out true words and action before you accused each other.
9 BE WISE-We can right the wrong between husband and wives if both of us are wise in taking any decision.
The fool ones fall prey of all allegation brought against him or her but the wise one will escape and be free from all allegation and afflictions.
Be wise do not be mislead by bad influence because they do not want you to get married even to enjoy your marriage because most of them are frustrated already and they are looking for whom to destroy.therefore be wise.
Above all let us try to implement this methods and show love and kindness towards one another in our homes and marriages so that we can enjoy blissful and healthy marriages.
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AGONY OF A WIDOW

AGONY OF A WIDOW
A widow is a woman whose husband is dead while a widower is a man whose wife also dead.
These are the set of people living among us as neighbors and relatives
Death is an inevitable things that human cannot find lasting solution to but only God that can give us long life and sustained our lives and help us to live a long and lasting life.
Meanwhile these are the agony of a widow I over heard one morning when I woke up early in the morning and found a woman sitting at her door step weeping and gnashing of her teeth saying “assuming my husband is not dead but still alive”
Now I asked what is her trouble and she narrated her pains and agony which includes
1 PAINS-She said that she feel pains every day because of the death of her husband that life is not meaningful for her again since death has snatched away what she treasure in life.Crying and weeping is her food hoping that the dead husband will come back to life again but to no avail.
2 REJECTION-She said that since her husband died she has been suffering rejection and isolation from her husband family and friends,no one cares about her and the children on how they feed and pay school fees and other necessities of life.Life is becoming unbearable for her and the children hence she woke up and cry saying assuming my husband is still alive this would not have happened to me.
3 SUFFERING-She said that she suffered a lot from the hands of both friends and family just because she lost her husband while others still enjoy marital vows
4 LONELINESS-The widow said that she always feel lonely and isolated since her husband is dead,No companion to talk and discuss some important thing with.,she always find herself locked in door and cry all day long.
5 FINANCE-She complained that she found it difficult to cope since her husband death in respect of finance including feeding dressing and accommodation since the husband cater for all these things when he is alive but now no one offer to render helps
6 LACK OF HELP MATE-The widow said that she suffer help mate and companion since her husband died therefore this make life becoming unbearable for her.
7 UNHAPPINESS-She said that she is not happy always because what she valued most in her life is taken away from her unexpectedly by death.
8 SORROW-She said that she feel sorrowful each day she thinks about her husband and how the man has been so good,kind and faithful to her and her children before sudden death took him away.
9 MOCKERY BY NEIGHBOURS-The woman said that she always mocked by her neighbours when she sees them moving with their husband telling her that she had no husband this make her feel sorrowful that when she got married those people are still single and now they enjoy good marital life while she wallow in pains and agony.
The widow now cry and said Oh my good husband,the man with kind heart,when I woke up in the morning,the sun that brighten my day is my husband.when I behold his eyes what I see is success because he is an epitome of success.
When I sleep in the night what I dreamt is favour because my husband is a symbol of favour to every one coming across him.
When I am lonely he cares and fondle my back with lovely hands that serves as therapy to my ailment and makes me feel like real and fulfilled woman.
When I am dejected he brings succor to my wounded souls
When all hope is gone,he brings joy and renew my hope and aspirations
The man whom every woman wants as husband in their life,when he moves along the street and seen by fellow women they said oh handsome man even if you refused to be my husband but please be my friend even if it cost me all I have to have you as my companion.
The man of valour and dignity whose smiles wipe away tears and sorrows.
You will be my husband now and forever and in the next generation to come just as Ruth and Naomi while Naomi said Entreat me not to leave you now nor asked me to go back that your people shall be my people,your God shall be my God,where you lay shall I also lie.
These are all what the widow said about her late husband with much agony and pains with tears running down her eyes
Therefore let us give the widows,the orphans,the widowers,the sick,the poor and the less privilege in the society a helping hand
Do not leave them on their situation, and problems give them your money,your time,your assistance and whatever God has placed in your hand to assist them.
You are not helping them but you are building your treasures in heaven because God is preparing you for another chance of miracles in your life.
Remember that we do not brings anything to this world and surely we will not carry anything go when we die so why cant you give to the needy just as the rich man said and asked Jesus in the bible that what can he do to inherit eternal life
And Jesus answered and said Go and sell all you have a give to the poor so that he may see the kingdom of God.
We don’t ask you to sell all you have and shared to the poor but please lend a helping hand to the less privilege
Let us look at this case study of a woman who married for many years without the fruits of the womb and children,at the fifth year the husband decided to marry another wife just because his wife cannot conceive and give him children and because of family pressures
Now the woman has suffered lots of humiliation and rejection from the mans family
Then the woman suggested to the husband that since we have been looking for children for many years now why cant we carry one of your brothers child and let him stay and lived with us and take over all his responsibilities including school fees and feeding.
The husband accepted with faith and do according to the wife advice and suggestion paying and sponsoring the boys school fees and other things
My reader behold something new happens in their life,the following year the woman receives the fruits of the womb and was pregnant and give birth to twin babies boys and girl and God wipe away her tears and replaced it with double honour,the rejected stone now becomes the head of the corner.
Acording to the scripture in Genesis 18,verse 1-14 Acording to the time of life and at the appointed time I will returned unto the and sarah shall have a son.
Surely the word of God came to pass and sarah bear a son at her old age because of her kindness to the three men visiting Abraham. Mean while be good,kind, love one another and you shall eat the fruit of the land.
Therefore what are your pains,what are your troubles,I do not know what problems you are passing through right now but God knows he said is there anything too hard for God Gen 18 verse 14 with God all things are possible.
God will wipe away your tears and sorrows and replace it with double favour and blessing
See what God is saying concerning you in Isaiah 10 verse 27 and Habakkuk 2 verse 3 although the vision is yet for an appointed time,but at the end it shall speak and not lie wait for it though it tarry wait for it because it will surely come and it will not tarry.
See also psalm 30 verse 5
It is well with your soul but please lend a helping hand today and you shall be honoured.
Shalom.

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Marriage is the legal union between man and woman coming together as husband and wives.
Marriage is life contract that needs to be very careful before going into it
Many marriages today collapse and separated because of one reason or the other
Many marriages today witness bitterness and hatred among husbands and wives due to one reasons and another that led to final divorce
These are some important suggestions gotten from various men when contacted and interviewed on the choice of women or girls they wanted for marriage.
Now let us look at the kind of girls and women and their attributes men wanted as wife
1` GOOD CHARACTER-Men wants a girl and women with good and decent characters that brings glory too the family not shame
2 HUMILITY-Men wanted a girl with high sense of humility not a proud and arrogant girl or women.
3 RESPECTFUL GIRL AND WOMEN-Men are looking for a woman with good respect for himself and immediate family not a very rude girl who disobey laid down rules and laws
4 KINDNESS-Kind ness they said begets kindness,men are looking for girls and women with high level of kindness but not a wicked and cruel women that destroys homes and ,marriages.
5 CREATIVITY-Most men are looking for girls and women that are very creative and have the same passion with them so as to build the home together and have a blissful marriage not a non creative women that cannot contribute to the welfare of the family.
6 LOVE-Love is the vehicle that drives marriage to a successful end and men are looking for girls and woman that can really show them true love without condition attached to it. I mean unconditional and undiluted love that brings about a blissful marriage.
7 LOYALTY-Some men are looking for mgirls and women who they can trust and confide on not a selfish woman that betray their trust, a loyal woman and girls are in hot demand by men
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9 INTELLOIGENT-Most men confess that their choice of women they wants is the intelligent one who they can share their views and aspirations with not a dullard who lacks innovation.
10 GOD FEARING WOMEN-The men also suggested a God fearing women to be their wife because if they have the fear of God they will not do anything that will hurt the husband and the family.
11 DRESSING CODE-Most men said that they like women with good dressing code that fits to all situation and they are proud of their wife when they appear in public but not a women that dress up and open parts of their body that tempts men to chase them all about.
Mean while these are the kind of ladies and women men said they can die for when looking for a wife.
Therefore if you are a lady or women looking for good husband to marry please try as much as possible to learn and practice some of this attributes and character so that you will soon get your choice husband that both of you will enjoy lasting marital life.
The reasons why many girls have not yet married is because of over selection and choice of men they wants
Many girls and women are looking for men who have already made money without knowing how they make such money,if you love somebody first then money will follpw later and you will both enjoy marital bliss.
Be wise in selecting your husband because not all that glitter is gold,commit your marriage and relationship to God in prayer and it shall be established.
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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

HOW TO WIN THE HEART OF YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND

HOW TO WIN THE HEART OF YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND
Today there are many challenges facing our marriages today and eventually leads to divorce
Therefore let us see how to win the hearts of our husband and wives so that we can can have a blissful marriage
1 LOVE-The first ingredient of marriage is love,wives or husband should try to win the heart by loving him or her with all your might and strenght
2 RESPECT-Respect your wife or husband if you want to win his or her heart
3 HUMILITY-Be humble to your partner and do not be proud
4 LOYALTY-Be loyal to your wife or husband if you must win his heart
5 OBEDIENT-You must be obedient if you must win the heart of your wife or husband,do not disobey when the needs arise
6 LEARN TO SAY SORRY IF YOU ARE AT FAULT OR WRONG-Learn to say iam sorry if there is quarrel and fight involving two of you since two wrongs cannot make a right
7 TELL YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND THAT I LOVE YOU-Register your interest in his or her mind by telling him or her that you love him or her
Repeat this several time and help him always in times of needs.
8 BUY HIM OR HER PRESENTS-Give your wife or husband a surprise present that will make him or her have interest and confidence in you,when you go out for shopping always remember that your wife or husband needs surprise gifts
9 SATISFACTION-Always satisfy your wife or husband curiousity when the needs arise,do not let another person do it for you when you are around,please try and satisfy him or her in any areas demanded
10 PRAYERFUL -When you are prayerful and commit your family to God in prayer,you will win your wife or husband hearts
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ACUTE BILATERAL OBSTRUCTIVE UROPATHY AND SYMPTOMS


Definition:
Acute bilateral obstructive uropathy is a sudden blockage of the flow of urine from both kidneys. The kidneys continue to produce urine in the normal manner, but because urine does not drain properly, the kidneys start to swell.
See also:
• Chronic unilateral obstructive uropathy
• Chronic bilateral obstructive uropathy
• Acute unilateral obstructive uropathy

Alternative Names:
Urethral obstruction; Acute urethral obstruction; Obstructive uropathy - bilateral - acute

Causes, incidence, and risk factors:
In men, acute bilateral obstructive uropathy is most often a result of an enlarged prostate. Other causes in men include:
• Bladder cancer
• Kidney stones
• Prostate cancer
Acute bilateral obstructive uropathy is much less common in women, but may be due to:
• Bladder cystocele
• Cervical cancer
• Injury from surgery involving the reproductive organs
• Pregnancy
Other causes in men and women include:
• Blood clots
• Neurogenic bladder
• Other rare retroperitoneal processes
• Papillary necrosis
• Posterior urethral valves in infant boys
Acute bilateral obstructive uropathy occurs in about 5 out of 10,000 people.

Symptoms:
• Abnormal urine flow -- dribbling at the end of urination
• Blood in the urine
• Burning or stinging with urination
• Decrease in the force of the urinary stream, stream small and weak
• Decreased urine output (may be less than 10 mL per day)
• Feeling of incomplete emptying of the bladder
• Fever
• Frequent strong urge to urinate
• Recent increase in blood pressure
• Leakage of urine (incontinence)
• Nausea and vomiting
• Need to urinate at night
• Sudden flank pain or pain on both sides
• Urinary hesitancy
• Urine, abnormal color

Signs and tests:
The doctor will perform a physical exam. The exam may show:
• Large and full bladder
• Swollen or tender kidneys
• Enlarged prostate (men)
There may be signs of chronic kidney failure, high blood pressure, and infection. Fever is common with an infection.
Tests that may be done include:
• Arterial blood gas and blood chemistries
• Basic metabolic panel -- will reveal kidney function and electrolyte balance
• Blood BUN
• Creatinine clearance
• Complete blood count
• Potassium test
• Serum creatinine test
• Urinalysis and a urine culture (clean catch)
• Ultrasound of the bladder
• Uroflowmetry
The following tests may show hydronephrosis (swelling of kidneys):
• IVP
• Renal scan
• Ultrasound of the kidneys
• Abdominal CT scan

Treatment:
The goal of treatment is to relieve the blockage, which will allow urine to drain from the urinary tract. You may need to stay in a hospital for a short while.
Short-term treatment may include:
• Antibiotics and other medications to treat symptoms
• Catheterization-- the placement of a tube into the body to drain urine (See: Urinary catheters )
Long-term treatment involves correcting the cause of the blockage. This may involve:
• Surgery such as transurethral resection of the prostate (TURP)
• Laser or heat therapy to shrink the prostate if the problem is due to an enlarged prostate
Surgery may also be needed for other disorders that cause blockage of the urethra or bladder neck.

Support Groups:

Expectations (prognosis):
If the acute obstruction is quickly relieved, symptoms usually go away within hours to days. If untreated, the disorder causes progressive damage to the kidneys. It may eventually lead to high blood pressure or kidney failure .

Complications:
• Acute kidney failure
• Chronic bilateral obstructive uropathy
• High blood pressure
• Reflux nephropathy
• Urinary tract infection
• Urinary retention or incontinence

Calling your health care provider:
Call your health care provider if you have decreased urine output, difficulty urinating, flank pain, or other symptoms of acute bilateral obstructive uropathy.

Prevention:
You may not be able to prevent this condition. Routine annual physicals with a primary care doctor are recommended. If your doctor finds you have acute obstructive uropathy, you should be referred to the nearest emergency room and seen by a urologist.
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